How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 18.06.2025 12:42
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why did Trump call Biden and Schumer Palestinians?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Are you offended if Democrats call Republicans "weird"?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Does not procrastinate.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
What is the dirtiest thing you have witnessed your wife do?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What makes outside showers appealing? Why are they not commonly seen?
Ask yourself:
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
That's it for today.
What is it like to have an insanely beautiful girlfriend?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What I need from you?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
I always feel very tired after I do some exercises, even after a night's sleep. What's the problem?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Have you ever witnessed political correctness harm someone?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Making more friends is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Do handsome guys intimidate women or people in general?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Women like what they hear while men like what they see, it that true?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Procrastinates a lot.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Losing 20kg is a goal.